How Honouring Your Ancestors Strengthens Your Intuition and Your Path
- Monica Finazzo
- 18 hours ago
- 4 min read
A Grounded Practice for Spiritual Insight

We often speak of going inward to access guidance but what if part of that guidance has been with you all along, running in your very blood? Your ancestors are not simply figures of the past. They are part of your present. They live in your DNA, in the rhythm of your voice, the shape of your hands, and the intuitive gifts you’re just beginning to reclaim.
You don’t need to wait for a special portal to connect with your lineage. You can begin now with reverence, simplicity, and deep listening.
Why Ancestor Connection Matters
When we think of spiritual guidance, we often look outward or upward. But ancestor work invites us to look backward, inward, and downward to the roots. Many of us carry questions about where we come from, or we feel a longing that can’t quite be explained. Ancestor connection is not about glorifying the past, but about witnessing it with honesty and opening to the wisdom it can offer.
Whether you know your family story or not, ancestor work can be a powerful bridge between your gifts and your grounding. You may find clarity around inherited beliefs, emotional patterns, or spiritual strengths passed down to you. You may even receive intuitive messages that deepen your self-understanding.
Start With Intention, Not Expectation
There’s no “right” way to connect with your ancestors. Some people experience clear visual or energetic messages; others feel only a sense of presence or peace.
Before you begin, try this simple grounding intention:
“I open this time with reverence and humility. I welcome connection with those who came before me in love and wisdom. May this be a space of healing and clarity.”
Choosing Crystals for Ancestral Connection
You don’t need tools, but some find that crystals support the energy of ancestor work. Here are a few you might explore:
Petrified Wood: Ancient, grounded, deeply tied to Earth and time. Wonderful for feeling connected to your body and ancestral lineage.
Chrysanthemum Stone: A symbol of the family tree, this stone helps clear inherited patterns and strengthen your roots.
Bloodstone: Green and red like heart and blood. Supports emotional clarity and lineage connection.
Quartz with Time Lines: These rare quartz pieces seem to contain “windows” to other times. They’re beautiful for tracking ancestral themes or patterns.
Crystal Skulls: While they may seem intense, these carvings symbolize ancestral memory and are often used to store and access energetic wisdom.
Choose intuitively. If a stone or object reminds you of a loved one, trust that.
How to Begin an Ancestor Connection Practice
You don’t need an elaborate altar to begin. A candle, a photo, a bowl of water, or a piece of jewelry can all serve as touchpoints.
Step-by-Step Practice
1. Create a Quiet Space
Sit or lie down somewhere calm. Light a candle or hold your chosen object.
2. Ground in Your Body
Breathe in and out slowly. Feel your feet. Bring your attention to your heart, your breath, your spine.
3. Focus on One Lineage
It helps to focus on one family line. For example, your mother’s mother’s side. This gives your energy a clear channel.
4. Open the Door
Say aloud or silently:
“I invite the loving, wise ancestors of this line to be present. I welcome only those in service to my healing and clarity.”
5. Sit With What Arises
You may feel nothing. You may feel warmth, see images, or recall memories. Let whatever comes be enough. Trust the subtleties.
6. Journal or Reflect
When you feel complete, take a few minutes to write what came up. You may notice patterns, messages, or emotional releases over time.
7. Offer Gratitude
“Thank you for walking with me. Thank you for your wisdom. May you be at peace.”
Tips for Deeper Connection
Use music from your ancestral culture if known. Drumming, chants, or folk instruments can open doors.
Cook a family recipe or use scents (like herbs, flowers, or spices) that feel connected to your roots.
Visit natural places - trees, stones, rivers that hold long histories.
Speak their names, if known. Saying them aloud is a powerful invocation.
What If I Don’t Know My Ancestors?
You can still connect. You may choose to work with the “wise ones of your bloodline” even if their names and stories are lost. You can also connect with spiritual or cultural ancestors those whose lives and energy resonate with your path.
Many adopted or estranged individuals find great healing in intuitive ancestor work. It’s less about genealogy and more about energy. Trust that the ancestors who wish to support you will find you.
Not Just About the Past
Ancestral healing is also about the future. When you connect with and heal your lineage, you’re also shaping what you pass on energetically, emotionally, spiritually. It’s a sacred act of liberation.
You are the dream of your ancestors. And through you, their stories continue. Shamans believe that we are affected by 7 past generations and we will affect 7 generations ahead of us. If you decide to have children or not, you are still influencing your loved ones.
Inside The Oracle’s Journey, we explore intuitive lineage work as part of your sacred path. You’ll be guided through grounding rituals, practices to trust your inner voice, and ways to clear inherited beliefs that no longer serve you.
The Early Bird enrollment is now open for 2026. This is the perfect moment to begin reclaiming your wisdom, not just from within but from those who’ve walked before.
With love,
Monica - The Enchantress
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